Scottsdale Alzheimer's careAlzheimer’s disease gradually diminishes a person’s ability to communicate.

People with dementia have more difficulty expressing thoughts and emotions, as well as more trouble understanding others. Here are some tips to help in communication and understanding:

  • Learn to create a ‘kind voice’ – slower, lower, smiling.
  • Talk slowly and clearly.
  • To orient the person and get his or her attention:
    • Call the person by name.
    • Always approach the person from the front so there are no surprises.
    • Tell the person who you are, even if you are the spouse or child.
  • Let the person know you are listening and trying to understand what is being said.
    • Keep good eye contact.
    • Show the person that you care about what is being said.
  • Patiently wait for a response as extra time may be required to process your request.
  • Repeat information and questions. If the person doesn’t respond, wait a moment. Then ask again.
  • Focus on the feelings, not the facts.
    • Sometimes the emotions being expressed are more important than what is being said.
  • Let the person think about and describe whatever he or she wants.
    • If the person uses the wrong word or cannot find a word, try guessing the right one.
    • If you don’t understand what is being said, ask the person to point or gesture.
  • Do not take any negative communication personally.
  • Avoid asking, “Do you remember when…?”
  • Use short, simple words and sentences.
  • Avoid criticizing, correcting and arguing.
  • Avoid using logic and reason.
  • Be careful not to interrupt.
  • Ask one question at a time.
  • Avoid quizzing.

For more information about how to care for a loved one with Alzheimer’s or to learn more about our Alzheimer’s and dementia home care services, contact Aventa Senior Care today!

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Tip resources from Alzheimer’s Association: alz.org